{"id":867,"date":"2018-06-21T13:32:55","date_gmt":"2018-06-21T13:32:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/eumoschool.eu\/?page_id=867"},"modified":"2018-08-27T06:34:10","modified_gmt":"2018-08-27T06:34:10","slug":"faq","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/eumoschool.eu\/ro\/guidelines\/faq\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00centreb\u0103ri frecvente"},"content":{"rendered":"[et_pb_section bb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; fullwidth=&#8221;on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.6&#8243; background_color=&#8221;#7db6d2&#8243; next_background_color=&#8221;#ffffff&#8221; global_module=&#8221;654&#8243;][et_pb_fullwidth_post_title global_parent=&#8221;654&#8243; meta=&#8221;off&#8221; featured_image=&#8221;off&#8221; text_color=&#8221;light&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.6&#8243; title_font_size=&#8221;45px&#8221; title_font_size_tablet=&#8221;30px&#8221; title_font_size_phone=&#8221;25&#8243; title_font_size_last_edited=&#8221;on|tablet&#8221; text_orientation=&#8221;center&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;0px|||&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;20px||20px|&#8221; animation_style=&#8221;fade&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221;]\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n[\/et_pb_fullwidth_post_title][et_pb_fullwidth_menu global_parent=&#8221;654&#8243; menu_id=&#8221;10&#8243; submenu_direction=&#8221;downwards&#8221; fullwidth_menu=&#8221;on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.6&#8243; background_color=&#8221;#2e6783&#8243; text_orientation=&#8221;center&#8221; background_layout=&#8221;dark&#8221;]\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n[\/et_pb_fullwidth_menu][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section bb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.47&#8243; prev_background_color=&#8221;#7db6d2&#8243; next_background_color=&#8221;#7db6d2&#8243;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.48&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;3.6&#8243;]\n<blockquote><p><em>Aceast\u0103 sec\u021biune cuprinde toate \u00eentreb\u0103rile frecvente pe care profesorii le-ar putea avea \u00eenainte de a pune \u00een aplicare DoE la \u0219coal\u0103.<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;3.6&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243;][et_pb_toggle title=&#8221;Cum s\u0103 \u00eencorpor\u0103m tehnicile \u00een via\u021ba \u0219colii?&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.6&#8243; title_level=&#8221;h1&#8243; open_toggle_text_color=&#8221;#7db5d1&#8243; open_toggle_background_color=&#8221;rgba(0,0,0,0)&#8221; closed_toggle_text_color=&#8221;#7db5d1&#8243; closed_toggle_background_color=&#8221;rgba(0,0,0,0)&#8221; border_color_all=&#8221;rgba(0,0,0,0)&#8221; title_text_color=&#8221;#000000&#8243; title_font_size=&#8221;45px&#8221; border_color_bottom=&#8221;#7db5d1&#8243; border_width_bottom=&#8221;3px&#8221; icon_color=&#8221;#7db5d1&#8243;]\n<p>O tr\u0103s\u0103tur\u0103 foarte important\u0103 a Didacticii Emo\u021biilor este aceea de a fi \u00eenglobat\u0103 \u00een via\u021ba cotidian\u0103 a \u0219colilor. Exist\u0103 c\u00e2teva \u0219coli care integreaz\u0103 educa\u021bia emo\u021bional\u0103 \u00een curriculum \u0219i, prin urmare, au lec\u021bii speciale alocate dezvolt\u0103rii socio-emo\u021bionale (\u00een \u0219colile care adopt\u0103 pedagogii reformiste), dar majoritatea \u0219colilor nu \u00ee\u0219i permit acest lux.<\/p>\n<p>Prin urmare, profesorii au urm\u0103toarele op\u021biuni:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>S\u0103 se dedice timp <strong>\u00eenainte de lec\u021bii<\/strong>: poate avea loc o scurt\u0103 discu\u021bie sau o tehnic\u0103 DoE \u00eenainte de a \u00eencepe orele diminea\u021ba. \u00cen acest sens, profesorul cere elevilor s\u0103 vin\u0103 cu 15 minute mai devreme. Acest lucru poate func\u021biona bine cu copiii mici (p\u00e2n\u0103 la 10 ani), deoarece este nevoie de aranjamente f\u0103cute \u00eempreun\u0103 cu p\u0103rin\u021bii. Func\u021bioneaz\u0103 destul de bine, deoarece abordarea ofer\u0103 un start f\u0103r\u0103 probleme pentru ziua \u0219coal\u0103.<\/li>\n<li>Putem folosi <strong>intervalele \u00eentre lec\u021bii<\/strong>, <strong>pauzele<\/strong> pentru tehnicile DoE, \u00eens\u0103 numai ocazional. Pauzele r\u0103spund la o nevoie important\u0103 a copiilor, dar dac\u0103 apar conflicte, ar putea fi important s\u0103 folosi\u021bi timpul pauzelor \u00een mod corespunz\u0103tor, al\u0103turi de timpul alocat pe durata lec\u021biei (vezi <em>Stop \u0219i pauz\u0103<\/em>). Elevii sunt mai dispu\u0219i s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i ofere timpul liber dac\u0103 se aloc\u0103 timp \u0219i din durata lec\u021biei.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Dup\u0103 cursuri<\/strong>: \u00een cazul \u00een care avem un curriculum \u00eenc\u0103rcat, putem s\u0103 aloc\u0103m timp dup\u0103 lec\u021bii (la fel ca \u00een cazul oric\u0103rei activit\u0103\u021bi extra-curriculare). Este important s\u0103 g\u0103si\u021bi perioada bun\u0103 pentru to\u021bi copiii. Dac\u0103 nu este posibil, v\u0103 sf\u0103tuim s\u0103 NU folosi\u021bi tehnicile DoE cu un subgrup al clasei, deoarece ar putea conduce la o scindare emo\u021bional\u0103 \u00een cadrul clasei. Cu toate acestea, s-ar putea s\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mple c\u0103 oferim DoE ca o op\u021biune facultativ\u0103 pentru un grup mai larg \u0219i s\u0103 organiz\u0103m un grup DoE specializat, care ar putea oferi elevilor posibilitatea de a lucra mai profund la inteligen\u021ba lor emo\u021bional\u0103.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Dirigen\u021bie<\/strong>: \u00een majoritatea \u0219colilor exist\u0103 timp dedicat (de exemplu o lec\u021bie pe s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103) pentru dirigen\u021bie. Aceasta poate fi o oportunitate de a utiliza tehnicile DoE, iar profesorul va vedea c\u0103 discu\u021biile despre emo\u021bii contribuie la cre\u0219terea sentimentului apartenen\u021bei la comunitatea clasei.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Excursii cu clasa \/ activit\u0103\u021bi extra\u0219colare<\/strong>: \u00een cele mai multe excursii, chiar dac\u0103 de o jum\u0103tate de zi, de-o zi sau mai multe zile, se poate aloca timp pentru DoE. Acest lucru va ajuta elevii s\u0103 se conecteze mai mult \u00eentre ei \u0219i de asemenea \u0219i cu profesorii \u2013 pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 impactul tehnicilor asupra inteligen\u021bei emo\u021bionale a elevilor. O <em>verificare a prezen\u021bei emo\u021biilor<\/em> adaptat\u0103 poate fi folosit\u0103 \u0219i \u00een timpul a\u0219tept\u0103rii unui autobuz sau tren, pentru a discuta despre modul \u00een care se simt \u00eenainte de excursie sau dup\u0103.<\/li>\n<li><strong>\u00cen timpul orelor<\/strong>: \u00een majoritatea cazurilor, putem ajunge la elevi \u00een timpul orelor. De\u0219i uneori pare c\u0103 este imposibil s\u0103 includem tehnicile DoE, acest lucru ar avea multe avantaje: dac\u0103 exist\u0103 un nivel sc\u0103zut de motiva\u021bie \u00een r\u00e2ndul elevilor din cauza st\u0103rii emo\u021bionale, atunci asta \u00eempiedic\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021barea oricum. Profesorii care utilizeaz\u0103 DoE au observat c\u0103 alocarea a 10 minute pentru un exerci\u021biu \u0219i discu\u021bii a ajutat elevii s\u0103 se re-focalizeze \u0219i, ulterior, eficien\u021ba clasei a crescut. Putem \u00eengloba tehnicile DoE \u00een planul nostru de lec\u021bie, \u00een func\u021bie de tema lec\u021biei noastre.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>C\u00e2teva idei pentru conectarea tehnicilor DoE la anumite teme:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Biologie<\/strong>: c\u00e2nd \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba\u021bi despre corp, jocul Corpul \u0219i emo\u021biile (tehnica 10) poate fi integrat cu u\u0219urin\u021b\u0103. De asemenea, putem cere elevilor s\u0103 realizeze video clipuri despre problema corporal\u0103 \u0219i emo\u021bional\u0103 (tehnica 9) \u0219i putem folosi cutia emo\u021biilor, verificarea prezen\u021bei emo\u021biilor (cu \u00eentrebarea \u201eunde sim\u021bi?&#8221;). De asemenea, putem discuta mai profund despre anatomia emo\u021biilor \u00een cadrul lec\u021biei.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Literatur\u0103<\/strong>: emo\u021biile sunt o parte foarte important\u0103 a literaturii. C\u00e2nd facem un plan de lec\u021bie (de exemplu, pentru <em>Romeo \u0219i Julieta<\/em>, a\u0219a cum s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat \u00eentr-o clas\u0103 pilot DoE), putem folosi c\u00e2teva exerci\u021bii DoE pentru a atrage elevii, cum ar fi <em>Jocul asocierilor<\/em>, <em>colajul emo\u021biilor<\/em> Putem de asemenea s\u0103 folosim <em>Jocul cu p\u0103pu\u0219i<\/em> unde vom folosi p\u0103pu\u0219i pentru protagoni\u0219tii textului literar cu care lucr\u0103m, pentru a interpreta o parte din poveste \u0219i a accentua sentimentele personajelor. Este important s\u0103 invit\u0103m la reflec\u021bie asupra sentimentelor proprii ale elevilor cu privire la poveste, pentru care putem folosi S\u0103cule\u021bul emo\u021biilor, Verificarea prezen\u021bei emo\u021biilor sau Ecusonul cu emo\u021bii (sau multe altele).<\/li>\n<li><strong>Istorie<\/strong>: la fel ca la literatur\u0103, istoria este compus\u0103 din narative, unde s-au manifestat multe emo\u021bii \u00eentre oameni. Abordarea emo\u021biilor lor (de exemplu prin realizarea de scurte video clipuri) poate fi o bun\u0103 ocazie de a reflecta asupra st\u0103rii emo\u021bionale a elevilor.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Chimie<\/strong>: chiar dac\u0103 pare neverosimil, emo\u021biile au fundal chimic \u0219i, conect\u00e2ndu-i la aceast\u0103 problem\u0103, putem vorbi cu elevii despre emo\u021bii \u00een cadrul lec\u021biilor de chimie, sau c\u00e2nd vorbim despre leg\u0103turi moleculare, putem face \u0219i paralele cu leg\u0103turile umane.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Limb\u0103 str\u0103in\u0103<\/strong>: cel mai simplu de integrat DoE: orice tehnic\u0103 poate fi folosit\u0103 la limb\u0103 str\u0103in\u0103! Cu siguran\u021b\u0103 elevii \u00ee\u0219i vor dezvolta vocabularul frumos \u00eembog\u0103\u021bindu-l cu expresii despre sentimente personale \u0219i spun\u00e2nd pove\u0219ti proprii.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Educa\u021bie fizic\u0103<\/strong>: orice exerci\u021biu \u00een care mi\u0219carea este inclus\u0103 sau poate fi inclus\u0103 (cum ar fi <em>Muzica se opre\u0219te \u0219i continu\u0103, Trenul emo\u021biilor<\/em>).<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Dup\u0103 cum arat\u0103 exemplele de mai sus, emo\u021biile sunt at\u00e2t de profund legate de toate domeniile vie\u021bii noastre \u00eenc\u00e2t, cu un pic de creativitate, ele pot fi conectate la mai multe probleme, teme, subiecte.<\/p>\n[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=&#8221;Cum s\u0103 facilit\u0103m discu\u021biile despre emo\u021bii? La ce s\u0103 fim aten\u021bi? &#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.6&#8243; title_level=&#8221;h1&#8243; open_toggle_text_color=&#8221;#7db5d1&#8243; open_toggle_background_color=&#8221;rgba(0,0,0,0)&#8221; closed_toggle_text_color=&#8221;#7db5d1&#8243; closed_toggle_background_color=&#8221;rgba(0,0,0,0)&#8221; border_color_all=&#8221;rgba(0,0,0,0)&#8221; title_text_color=&#8221;#000000&#8243; title_font_size=&#8221;45px&#8221; border_color_bottom=&#8221;#7db5d1&#8243; border_width_bottom=&#8221;3px&#8221; icon_color=&#8221;#7db5d1&#8243;]\n<p>C\u00e2nd vorbim despre emo\u021bii \u0219i sentimente, stilul de comunicare este un aspect cheie. Pentru a se putea dezvolta, elevii trebuie s\u0103 simt\u0103 confortul siguran\u021bei \u0219i accept\u0103rii emo\u021bionale, conform renumitului psiholog Carl R. Rogers. Este responsabilitatea noastr\u0103 ca educatori s\u0103 cre\u0103m o atmosfer\u0103 \u00een care elevii simt aceast\u0103 siguran\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 se exprime liber, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 se team\u0103 de judecat\u0103 sau c\u0103 vor fi ataca\u021bi. Aceast\u0103 atmosfer\u0103 este esen\u021bial\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd scopul nostru este educa\u021bia emo\u021bional\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Pentru a ne g\u00e2ndi la modalit\u0103\u021bile prin care comunicarea noastr\u0103 poate fi util\u0103 \u00een acest sens, <strong>modelul de comunicare nonviolent\u0103 al lui Marshall Rosenberg\u00a0<a href=\"#_ftn1\" name=\"_ftnref1\">[1]<\/a> <\/strong>este un cadru util. Rosenberg a descris dou\u0103 moduri de comunicare: limba \u0219acalilor \u0219i a girafei. \u0218acalii v\u0103d situa\u021bia social\u0103 prin lentilele de putere, de aceea comunic\u0103 \u00een mod obi\u0219nuit \u00een dou\u0103 moduri: dac\u0103 cel\u0103lalt este mai slab dec\u00e2t acesta, \u00eel atac\u0103, dar dac\u0103 cel\u0103lalt este mai puternic, \u0219acalul pleac\u0103 \u00een lini\u0219te. \u00cen timp ce girafele sunt mari, dar foarte bl\u00e2nde &#8211; ar putea distruge inamicul cu o singur\u0103 lovitur\u0103 &#8211; dar nu vor. Acestea sunt cele dou\u0103 tipare de baz\u0103 ale comunic\u0103rii: comunicarea violent\u0103 \u0219i nonviolent\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen timp ce este natural \u0219i, uneori, potrivit s\u0103 comunica\u021bi ca \u0219acalii, atunci c\u00e2nd sunt \u00een joc emo\u021bii, este important s\u0103 v\u0103 situa\u021bi mai mult \u00een zona girafei. Pentru aceasta, trebuie s\u0103 facem urm\u0103torii pa\u0219i:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><em>Observare<\/em> &#8211; nu interpreta\u021bi, doar observa\u021bi ceea ce face cel\u0103lalt (dar fi\u021bi precis!) (\u201eC\u00e2nd am sugerat s\u0103 ie\u0219im afar\u0103, a\u021bi r\u00e2s.&#8221;)<\/li>\n<li><em>Senza\u021bie<\/em> &#8211; vorbi\u021bi despre ceea ce sim\u021bi\u021bi (\u201eM-a f\u0103cut s\u0103 m\u0103 simt singur \u0219i neimportant&#8221;).<\/li>\n<li><em>Nevoie<\/em> &#8211; vorbi\u021bi despre nevoia voastr\u0103 (\u201eA\u0219 dori s\u0103 lua\u021bi \u00een serios ideile mele&#8221;).<\/li>\n<li><em>\u00centrebare<\/em> &#8211; Dac\u0103 ave\u021bi nevoie de ceva, pute\u021bi s\u0103 cere\u021bi (\u201eData viitoare c\u00e2nd v\u0103 suger\u0103m ceva, v\u0103 rug\u0103m s\u0103 ne asculta\u021bi pentru a ne putea g\u00e2ndi \u00eempreun\u0103&#8221;).<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Un alt instrument pe care l-am putea utiliza este abordarea lui <strong>Thomas Gordon<a href=\"#_ftn2\" name=\"_ftnref2\">[2]<\/a> de comunicare sprijinit\u0103<\/strong>. Fundamentul modelului s\u0103u este similar cu cel al lui Rosenberg: ar trebui s\u0103 fim aten\u021bi la sentimentele noastre \u0219i la ceilal\u021bi \u0219i s\u0103 men\u021binem comunicarea deschis\u0103. Pentru aceasta, trebuie s\u0103 evit\u0103m barierele de comunicare, care pot bloca cealalt\u0103 persoan\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd \u00ee\u0219i \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219e\u0219te emo\u021biile \u0219i s\u0103 utiliz\u0103m tehnici de ascultare activ\u0103, care \u00eencurajeaz\u0103 cealalt\u0103 persoan\u0103 s\u0103 continue s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Unele dintre cele mai comune bariere \u00een comunicare sunt urm\u0103toarele:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><em>Comenzile<\/em>: C\u00e2nd d\u0103m comenzi altora, ne demonstr\u0103m puterea asupra lor. Acest lucru ar putea conduce la situa\u021bia \u00een care cealalt\u0103 persoan\u0103 \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 loveasc\u0103 \u0219i ea, ceea ce poate duce la ceart\u0103.<\/li>\n<li><em>Amenin\u021bare<\/em>: Este similar\u0103 cu amenin\u021barea celeilalte persoane &#8211; o face s\u0103 se simt\u0103 atacat\u0103 \u0219i creeaz\u0103 team\u0103. Persoana \u0219i-ar putea schimba comportamentul, dar pe termen lung, aceast\u0103 strategie tulbur\u0103 rela\u021biile dintre oameni.<\/li>\n<li><em>Predicile moralizatoare<\/em>: C\u00e2nd \u00eencepem s\u0103 predic\u0103m cuiva c\u00e2nd vorbe\u0219te despre sentimentele sale, asta poate conduce la umilirea celeilalte persoane.<\/li>\n<li><em>Sf\u0103tuirea<\/em>: C\u00e2nd d\u0103m sfaturi celorlal\u021bi atunci c\u00e2nd ei se afl\u0103 \u00eentr-o stare emo\u021bional\u0103 dificil\u0103 putem ajunge la efecte similare ca mai sus (predici moralizatoare). Cealalt\u0103 persoan\u0103 s-ar putea sim\u021bi prost pentru c\u0103 nu a g\u0103sit solu\u021bia potrivit\u0103 singur\u0103.<\/li>\n<li><em>Pove\u0219tile proprii<\/em>: Dac\u0103 cineva vorbe\u0219te despre sentimentele sale \u0219i, ca r\u0103spuns, \u00eencepem s\u0103 vorbim despre ceea ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat cu noi, demonstreaz\u0103 persoanei c\u0103 nu ne intereseaz\u0103 \u00eentr-adev\u0103r ceea ce simt &#8211; accentul e pe noi \u00een\u0219ine.<\/li>\n<li><em>Argumente logice<\/em>: Argumentele logice sunt similare cu recomand\u0103rile \u00een astfel de situa\u021bii, deoarece o persoan\u0103 care este cople\u0219it\u0103 de emo\u021biile sale nu este, de obicei, capabil\u0103 s\u0103 asculte motivele, deci argumentele nu ajut\u0103 la rezolvarea situa\u021biei.<\/li>\n<li><em>\u00cencurajarea<\/em>: \u00eencurajarea poate fi util\u0103 \u00een anumite situa\u021bii, dar c\u00e2nd, de exemplu, cineva ne spune c\u0103 se simt trist \u0219i r\u0103spunsul nostru este \u201e\u00eenvesele\u0219te-te&#8221;, cel\u0103lalt ar putea sim\u021bi c\u0103 nu are voie s\u0103 simt\u0103 ceea ce simte .<\/li>\n<li><em>Criticarea<\/em>: \u201eAi gre\u0219it \u00een aceast\u0103 situa\u021bie&#8221; &#8211; critic\u00e2nd cealalt\u0103 persoan\u0103 \u00een acest fel face ca ea s\u0103 se apere, \u00een loc s\u0103 continue s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103 despre cum simte.<\/li>\n<li><em>Glumele<\/em>: Dac\u0103 \u00eencepem s\u0103 glumim despre emo\u021biile cuiva, putem r\u0103ni cu u\u0219urin\u021b\u0103 \u0219i vom \u00eempiedica cealalt\u0103 persoan\u0103 s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103 despre cum simte.<\/li>\n<li><em>Etichetarea<\/em>: Dac\u0103 punem etichete pe cealalt\u0103 persoan\u0103, ea ar putea sim\u021bi c\u0103 nu e \u00een\u021beleas\u0103 ca individ \u0219i nu se va sim\u021bi \u00eencurajat\u0103 s\u0103 continue s\u0103 se dezv\u0103luie.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>De\u0219i este important s\u0103 evit\u0103m barierele de mai sus, exist\u0103 instrumente care s\u0103 demonstreze c\u0103 ne intereseaz\u0103 ceea ce spune cealalt\u0103 persoan\u0103 \u0219i c\u0103 o ascult\u0103m. Acestea sunt urm\u0103toarele:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><em>Oglindire<\/em> (\u201eV\u0103d c\u0103 ai fost \u00eencurcat c\u00e2nd nu ai putut termina la timp&#8221;): C\u00e2nd folosim oglindirea, \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 punem \u00een cuvinte ceea ce vedem \/ auzim de la cealalt\u0103 persoan\u0103. Noi nu interpret\u0103m, ci descriem ceea ce am \u00een\u021beles. Nu conteaz\u0103 dac\u0103 nu suntem preci\u0219i \u00een observa\u021bia noastr\u0103, deoarece cel\u0103lalt ne poate corecta \u0219i poate continua s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103.<\/li>\n<li><em>\u00centreb\u0103ri deschise<\/em> (\u201eCum v-a\u021bi sim\u021bit \u00een leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu schimbarea planurilor?&#8221;): Dac\u0103 vrem s\u0103 \u0219tim mai multe, ar trebui s\u0103 ne exprim\u0103m \u00eentreb\u0103rile \u00een mod deschis, astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t cel\u0103lalt s\u0103 simt\u0103 c\u0103 poate s\u0103-\u0219i \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219easc\u0103 sentimentele. Dac\u0103 poate r\u0103spunde doar cu r\u0103spuns da sau nu, nu ar putea intra \u00een detalii.<\/li>\n<li><em>Reformularea<\/em> (\u201eSpui c\u0103 te-ai plictisit \u00een timpul jocului&#8221;): Reformarea comentariilor celorlal\u021bi serve\u0219te scopului de a ne asigura c\u0103 i-am \u00een\u021beles bine \u0219i c\u0103 le d\u0103m o \u0219ans\u0103 s\u0103-\u0219i descrie sentimentele \u00een mai multe detalii.<\/li>\n<li><em>Introspec\u021bia<\/em> (\u201eSimt \u0219i eu sup\u0103rare c\u00e2nd cineva nu-mi ascult\u0103 ideile&#8221;): Putem \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219i un pic din noi \u00een\u0219ine, pentru a facilita discu\u021bia despre sentimente. Este important s\u0103 nu ne \u00eendrept\u0103m aten\u021bia asupra noastr\u0103 (ca \u0219i cum am spune o poveste proprie), dar s\u0103 ar\u0103t\u0103m c\u0103 de multe ori sim\u021bim \u00een acela\u0219i fel.<\/li>\n<li><em>Rezumarea<\/em>: Rezum\u00e2nd ceea ce am auzit \u00een timpul unei discu\u021bii poate ajuta oamenii s\u0103 devin\u0103 mai con\u0219tien\u021bi de ceea ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat \u0219i astfel pot analiza mai bine situa\u021bia.<\/li>\n<li><em>Informarea<\/em>: C\u00e2teodat\u0103 putem ajuta cealalt\u0103 persoan\u0103 prin oferirea unor informa\u021bii concrete cu privire la un subiect \u00eengrijor\u0103tor. Acest lucru rezolv\u0103 adesea situa\u021bia mai u\u0219or.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>C\u00e2nd lucr\u0103m cu grupuri de elevi, ar trebui s\u0103 stabilim ni\u0219te reguli de baz\u0103 de comunicare, pe care s\u0103 le urmeze to\u021bi \u0219i, \u00een acela\u0219i timp, ar trebui s\u0103 le respect\u0103m \u0219i noi \u00een\u0219ine, s\u0103 oferim un model elevilor. Ar putea fi dificil la \u00eenceput, dac\u0103 nu suntem obi\u0219nui\u021bi cu acest mod de comunicare &#8211; mai ales ca educatori, rolul nostru implic\u0103 deseori predarea unor con\u021binuturi. Este, de asemenea, o provocare, deoarece scopul nostru este de a face fa\u021b\u0103 r\u0103spunsurilor emo\u021bionale &#8211; dar acesta este motivul pentru care trebuie s\u0103 fim con\u0219tien\u021bi cu adev\u0103rat de nevoia de facilitare a discu\u021biilor \u00een timpul \u0219i dup\u0103 jocuri. Ne-ar pl\u0103cea ca elevii s\u0103-\u0219i experimenteze emo\u021biile f\u0103r\u0103 ca cineva s\u0103 fie r\u0103nit.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref1\" name=\"_ftn1\">[1]<\/a> Rosenberg, Marshall (1995). Words Are Windows Or They&#8217;re Walls. &#8211; Nonviolent Communication: Varighed 145 Min. Create Your Life &#8211; Productions<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref2\" name=\"_ftn2\">[2]<\/a> Gordon, Thomas \u2013 Burch, Noel (1974). Teacher Effectiveness Training, P. H. Wyden (\u0219i alte 17 edi\u021bii)<\/p>\n[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=&#8221;Ce e de f\u0103cut \u00een situa\u021bii dificile?&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.6&#8243; title_level=&#8221;h1&#8243; open_toggle_text_color=&#8221;#7db5d1&#8243; open_toggle_background_color=&#8221;rgba(0,0,0,0)&#8221; closed_toggle_text_color=&#8221;#7db5d1&#8243; closed_toggle_background_color=&#8221;rgba(0,0,0,0)&#8221; border_color_all=&#8221;rgba(0,0,0,0)&#8221; title_text_color=&#8221;#000000&#8243; title_font_size=&#8221;45px&#8221; border_color_bottom=&#8221;#7db5d1&#8243; border_width_bottom=&#8221;3px&#8221; icon_color=&#8221;#7db5d1&#8243;]\n<p>Mul\u021bi profesori se tem c\u0103 dac\u0103 elevii vorbesc despre emo\u021biile lor asta ar putea genera situa\u021bii la care n-ar putea face fa\u021b\u0103. Cadrele didactice se simt adesea neputincioase cu elevii care pl\u00e2ng, care descriu pove\u0219ti personale dificile, ceea ce este absolut normal. Este important s\u0103 recunoa\u0219tem limitele competen\u021belor noastre: pentru unii dintre noi s\u0103 ajut\u0103m la rezolvarea unor conflicte este \u00een regul\u0103, pentru al\u021bii este greu.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e2nd vorbim despre emo\u021bii, da, se poate \u00eent\u00e2mpla ca situa\u021bii dificile s\u0103 apar\u0103 la lumin\u0103, totu\u0219i este rar\u0103. \u00cen majoritatea cazurilor, elevii reglementeaz\u0103 ceea ce \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219esc cu ceilal\u021bi sau cu profesorul. Dac\u0103 \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219esc ceva foarte complicat \u0219i dificil, dec\u00e2t o fac pentru c\u0103 au nevoie de ajutor. Oferind un &#8222;1&#8221; la apelul de emo\u021bii, pun\u00e2nd probleme grele \u00een Post Box &#8211; acestea sunt strig\u0103te importante pentru ajutor.<\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103, cel mai important lucru este <strong>s\u0103 nu ne panic\u0103m<\/strong>. Nu stric\u0103 niciodat\u0103 dac\u0103 folosim tehnicile de ascultare activ\u0103 men\u021bionate anterior (facilitarea discu\u021biilor): t\u0103cere \u0219i ascultare, reflectare, observare etc. Dac\u0103 elevii vor s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103 despre ceea ce este o problem\u0103 stresant\u0103 \u0219i presant\u0103 pentru ei, ascultarea este foarte important\u0103. Ea spore\u0219te sentimentul de siguran\u021b\u0103 \u0219i ofer\u0103 un context pentru a-\u0219i desc\u0103rca emo\u021biile, ajut\u00e2ndu-i, de asemenea, s\u0103 se reconecteze cu ei \u00een\u0219i\u0219i, s\u0103 se adune. (Nu uita\u021bi de barierele comunica\u021bionale; oferirea de sfaturi \u00een acest context poate fi nociv\u0103!)<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen cazul \u00een care povestea, problema este intens\u0103, sau vede\u021bi semne c\u0103 elevul este neglijat, abuzat, depresiv sau are probleme afective grave, <strong>adresa\u021bi-v\u0103 unui expert<\/strong>. Majoritatea \u0219colilor au psihologi, dar chiar dac\u0103 nu, exist\u0103 centre regionale de asisten\u021b\u0103 pentru copii la care pute\u021bi apela. Dac\u0103 observa\u021bi semne de abuz (fizic) sau de neglijen\u021b\u0103 grav\u0103 (de exemplu, \u00eenfometare, igien\u0103 personal\u0103 proast\u0103), informa\u021bi imediat directorul \u0219i \u00eempreun\u0103 lua\u021bi m\u0103surile care se impun.<\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 nu \u0219ti\u021bi exact ce s\u0103 face\u021bi, pute\u021bi apela \u0219i linia de asisten\u021b\u0103 pentru copii din \u021bara dvs. Num\u0103rul armonizat pentru fiecare \u021bar\u0103 UE este de 116-111, dar ar trebui s\u0103 verifica\u021bi care este situa\u021bia \u00een \u021bara dvs. Acolo pute\u021bi ob\u021bine sfaturi despre ce s\u0103 face\u021bi, cui s\u0103 v\u0103 adresa\u021bi.<\/p>\n[\/et_pb_toggle][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section bb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; fullwidth=&#8221;on&#8221; specialty=&#8221;off&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.6&#8243; background_color=&#8221;#7db6d2&#8243; prev_background_color=&#8221;#ffffff&#8221; global_module=&#8221;888&#8243;][et_pb_fullwidth_menu global_parent=&#8221;888&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.6&#8243; menu_id=&#8221;10&#8243; submenu_direction=&#8221;downwards&#8221; fullwidth_menu=&#8221;on&#8221; background_color=&#8221;#7db6d2&#8243; background_layout=&#8221;dark&#8221; text_orientation=&#8221;center&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; \/][\/et_pb_section]","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; &nbsp; Aceast\u0103 sec\u021biune cuprinde toate \u00eentreb\u0103rile frecvente pe care profesorii le-ar putea avea \u00eenainte de a pune \u00een aplicare DoE la \u0219coal\u0103. 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